jen84
New member
Hi,
I have been a blusher for most of my life. I always thought i'd grow out of it but im 24 now and it's still ruling my life. I only ever blush inappropriately in work and unfortunately i have to spend 40 hrs a week there! People just have to talk to me and i blush. it's mainly when they ask a question about ME e.g where are you going on holiday this year? - something dumb like that and it sets me off! its horrible! im currently trying green makeup and facial redness no 7 moisturiser but im not sure of the results because i still burn up to the point i think my face is gunna explode.
so anyway the biggest problem im having at the moment is that me and my partner have just started trying for a baby and i know this sounds ridiculous but you guys proberbly do exactly the same and dread moments months or maybe years before they happen!! i'm really dreading telling every1 im pregnant. i was reading the 'birthday' post before i got writing this and i too panick about my birthday in work but for me, this will be like my birthday everyday for the first few weeks! i know it sounds stupid but i dont want to be congratulated and made a fuss of. Dont get me wrong, i'll be really happy but i just dont want it to set off my blushing. It's just an example of blushing ruling my life. I dont want it to decide whether i have a baby or not just because of this intense fear of going red all the tym.
Any ideas on how i should approach work with minimal blushing!? x
I have been a blusher for most of my life. I always thought i'd grow out of it but im 24 now and it's still ruling my life. I only ever blush inappropriately in work and unfortunately i have to spend 40 hrs a week there! People just have to talk to me and i blush. it's mainly when they ask a question about ME e.g where are you going on holiday this year? - something dumb like that and it sets me off! its horrible! im currently trying green makeup and facial redness no 7 moisturiser but im not sure of the results because i still burn up to the point i think my face is gunna explode.
so anyway the biggest problem im having at the moment is that me and my partner have just started trying for a baby and i know this sounds ridiculous but you guys proberbly do exactly the same and dread moments months or maybe years before they happen!! i'm really dreading telling every1 im pregnant. i was reading the 'birthday' post before i got writing this and i too panick about my birthday in work but for me, this will be like my birthday everyday for the first few weeks! i know it sounds stupid but i dont want to be congratulated and made a fuss of. Dont get me wrong, i'll be really happy but i just dont want it to set off my blushing. It's just an example of blushing ruling my life. I dont want it to decide whether i have a baby or not just because of this intense fear of going red all the tym.
Any ideas on how i should approach work with minimal blushing!? x