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Does SA affect it?
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I'm single. My SA is the cause of it. I can't got to bars etc so i don't get the opportunity to meet anyone and even if i did meet a guy i liked i'd turn into a blubbering idiot.
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I am just like wishingIcould; plus, I have so much anticipatory anxiety when I think about attempting to talk to a women, and then I tend to have a panic while talking to her.
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Does SA affect it?
Where's the "No, in a relationship/marriage option"?
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Relationship

Yes it does, an inferiority complex and struggling in public are still there.
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I am single

My SA affects me a lot in my attempts to meet girls .
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I am also single and SA makes meeting a girl very difficult. In fact, I don't even try!
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I'm not in a relationship.

I don't even attempt to start one, due to several things.
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I'm not in a relationship.

I don't even attempt to start one, due to several things.
This.

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I've noticed that more girls are in relationships than boys, so that's good that you girls can still get together with guys despite your mental issues!

I'm single. I had a girlfriend in 2011 that absolutely didn't work out. Being in a relationship scares me to my wits end, but hopefully I can try it again one day.
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I just got out of one... I will never date again.

I can't see the world like I use to. It kind of sucks that I can read people very well from what I've experienced. Whenever I can prove something that I feel, I'm always right. I hate being like this. It's miserable.
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im scared i will never be able to maintain or start a relationship with a girl.
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im scared i will never be able to maintain or start a relationship with a girl.
Try it with a male?
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I'm single, by choice.
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Try it with a male?
im not gay -__-, but even if i was i scared to because of my sa :(
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I'm in a relationship.

It started out well but eventually my gf found out about my SA. She thinks it doesn't matter thankfully. Also if you think being in a relationship will solve your problems it won't. It may just make them worse.
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I wish I was! But atm, it probably would end up failing. But I've had my chances or confidence talking to girls I really liked vanish due to SA.
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I don't even know how to form a relationship. I am totally clueless. And I'm middle aged. In fact, the idea of being in a relationship is so alien to me, I don't know if I could handle it if I were.
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I wish I was! But atm, it probably would end up failing. But I've had my chances or confidence talking to girls I really liked vanish due to SA.
i wish i was in a good on :(
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Neither. I've been single since July of 2011. I've been on various dates with different guys since then, but that's it.

Does SA have anything to do with it? Sort of, I guess. It's a combination of different things.
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