appearance/sa

chickenmaryjane · Mar 17, 2009

I used to associate social phobia to Igor or the Hunchback of Notre Dame
like individuals.But by coming to this forum and seeing some of the users' pics I came to realized that attractive people are social phobics, too. I just don't understand why some good looking people are shy!

toto · Mar 17, 2009

I'm Igor for sure!

Rise Against · Mar 17, 2009

Lol, your post made me laugh... Ive got a one word answer, "genetics". I think im good looking but im really really shy.

Errordotocx · Mar 17, 2009

chickenmaryjane said:
But by coming to this forum and seeing some of the users' pics I came to realized that attractive people are social phobics, too.

Yeah, I basically came to the same conclusion when I first came here.

lettypagb · Mar 18, 2009

yeah ,maybe because ugly peoples dont care what others think about them , they dont have to be perfect because they already know they are not .

, lol i cant believe i just posted it.

Noca · Mar 18, 2009

I used to think I was ugly so in order to challenge that thought Im going to do some modeling

kuze · Mar 18, 2009

my shyness has alot to do with my appearance

Ubersonic · Mar 18, 2009

Maybe only the attractive people are comfortable posting? You'll never see my pic.

lurknomore · Mar 18, 2009

Ubersonic said:
Maybe only the attractive people are comfortable posting? You'll never see my pic.

I don't think I'm totally unattractive, but I hate having my picture taken. I don't even have any pictures of myself to post.

TheNewZero · Mar 18, 2009

I think it's all about how people present themselves. I don't necessarily consider myself beautiful, but I think I'm decent and I have never been hit on by a guy or pursued by anyone. I had a friend who was...well less than attractive but she was super outgoing and really intelligent and always had to perfect thing to say to people. She also had this weird thing about not showering...anyways she could get any guy she wanted. Perhaps its the pheromones...

gsmax5 · Mar 18, 2009

chickenmaryjane said:
I used to associate social phobia to Igor or the Hunchback of Notre Dame
like individuals.But by coming to this forum and seeing some of the users' pics I came to realized that attractive people are social phobics, too. I just don't understand why some good looking people are shy!

Seeing attractive people concerned about their self-image really helped me to see that I'm probably not ugly like I thought before. You're probably a sexy beast who never really realized it.

recluse · Mar 19, 2009

You can't judge a person by their appearance. Social phobics come in all shapes, sizes and races. The fact is a person could be attractive but without self belief the person will feel anything but attractive.

I don't consider myself good looking but i do notice that when i am depressed i feel ugly, and when i am happy i feel attractive almost. A persons mood determines how they feel about themselves physically i think.

rand0m_guy · Mar 19, 2009

I don't think I'm attractive nor unattractive.

Like recluse though when my mood is good I can feel happy about how I look, but when it's not so good I can think I just look plain odd.

I never like looking at myself in the mirror for to long though, not 'cause I think I'm hideous to look at, but because it can make feel detached and alien to myself and it can freak me out.

All in all I don't give to much thought at all to my appearance. I think girls generally suffer more in that respect unfortunately.

thor01 · Mar 19, 2009

I have no idea weather other people think i'm attractice, because ive never been told, or had girls show interest. I mysel would usualy say im not ugly, but then i wonder why if i'm not ugly im never shown interest by gilrs who dont mind shy guys. Thats the only thing i think makes me start to wonder if im not attractive. I know its a sad thing thing to want reassurance from other people, but i do feel like i need it to know weather i am attractive or not. And i never have had it in any way.

Lea · Mar 19, 2009

You all should post your pictures here. There are so many people incl. long time posters who still haven´t done it.

madmike · Mar 19, 2009

'You can't judge a person by their appearance. Social phobics come in all shapes, sizes and races. The fact is a person could be attractive but without self belief the person will feel anything but attractive.

I don't consider myself good looking but i do notice that when i am depressed i feel ugly, and when i am happy i feel attractive almost. A persons mood determines how they feel about themselves physically i think. '

Agreed. End of argument lol

enchantress24 · Mar 19, 2009

TheNewZero said:
] She also had this weird thing about not showering...anyways she could get any guy she wanted. Perhaps its the pheromones...

What is it about people that don't shower getting lucky? I know a couple of friends that do not shower for days, smell really funky...yet, get laid very week. Is that what it takes?? I take two showers a day. I guess I've been wrong all along.

j_brown2 · Mar 19, 2009

Looks got noting to do with this. The most good lookin guy if he looks depressed, anxious all uptight is gona look like shit, ugly i would say (thats how i think about myself, so thats why that opinon), like somobody you dont wanna look at.

confidence is attractive, good lookin, its all how you cary and feel about yourself

iam not gonna feel good lookin or attractive till i start seeing myself in a different way or become happy somehow

TheNewZero · Mar 19, 2009

enchantress24 said:
What is it about people that don't shower getting lucky? I know a couple of friends that do not shower for days, smell really funky...yet, get laid very week. Is that what it takes?? I take two showers a day. I guess I've been wrong all along.

LOL I know right? I mean, this girl STUNK. And she never brushed her teeth. I'm telling you, its the pheromones.

Rise Against · Mar 19, 2009

SAD is like AIDS, anyone can get it.

appearance/sa

Well-known member

Attachments

Member

Well-known member

Well-known member

Well-known member

Banned

Well-known member

Well-known member

1

Well-known member

Well-known member

Well-known member

Well-known member

Well-known member

Banned

Well-known member

Well-known member

Banned

Well-known member

Well-known member