Anybody else scared for sex?

Yep, so I'm sexually inexperienced. Despite my occasional curiosity, I'm absolutely scared for sex. I've had dreams in which I'm with a lady and then I get too scared to do it with her... It's weird. Occasionally, I've seen girls and thought about them in inappropriate ways so I know I do want it... [Sorry, females] However, maybe, I'm okay with those fantasies because I know I'm so far from reality. Actually being in that sort of situation would freak me out and make me anxious. It's too real or whatever; I wouldn't know what to do, put on the spot like that.

Anybody else experience the same thing as me?

Yeah, I know what you mean. I was just thinking about this the other day. I want to find a girlfriend, and I think I could probably handle most of the aspects of a relationship, but the physical stuff would definitely take a lot of getting used to. I'm a single guy in my twenties so of course I fantasize, but how would I respond if things got to that point in reality? It would legitimately scare me. I think I would probably be nervous to the point of throwing up.

Yep! Pretty much sums me up as well.

I am too in a young man in my 20's and on the rare occasion that I do get intimate with a partner. I suffer from early ejaculation!! Needless to say, sexual intimacy is not on top of my too do list!

It's really hard to get over that initial hurdle, but if you are honest with the person you're with and trust them implicitly, then you might find that they're not as judgmental as you imagine them to be.

hahaha my story is completely different... i want good and healthy sexual life but aren't getting any ...?

so when you get a change do it