Any New years resolutions?

4myself

4myself

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I am going to sit down today and make up a short list of things that i would like to achieve next year in order to make progress towards overcoming social phobia. I am going to keep the goals simple, just one or two steps beyond where I am now so I wont get so scared that I wont do them.

Does anyone else have any goals to make 2006 the year of "insert name here" ?.
 
redlady

redlady

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I am going to talk more!! I hate that i just sit there and say nothing - even though i have something on mind to say.
 
black_mamba

black_mamba

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4myself said:
I am going to sit down today and make up a short list of things that i would like to achieve next year in order to make progress towards overcoming social phobia. I am going to keep the goals simple, just one or two steps beyond where I am now so I wont get so scared that I wont do them.

Does anyone else have any goals to make 2006 the year of "insert name here" ?.
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Sounds good, keep the list very short and achievable. I personally wouldn't go beyond 2 or 3 aims for the year. That way anything else you manage will be a bonus!

I tend to set goals all the time, so not especially for new years. I've already achieved 2 out of 3 (get my motorbike licence and do some presentations in schools) so I guess this years resolution will be to graduate with an amazing degree. Thats it......not much to ask for, is it? :?
 
renegade

renegade

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Mine is 2 find the right drug to cure SP or at least eliminate anxiety and then start going out and start making some friends, and maybe if I get really lucky a girlfriend :lol:

Sounds like a nice dream...
 
lostboi

lostboi

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Mine is 2 find the right drug to cure SP or at least eliminate anxiety and then start going out and start making some friends, and maybe if I get really lucky a girlfriend
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I'm right with you renegade. SA has had too much control of my life for too long. I'm going to make an effort to start making eye contact smiling and just talking to people. I want to find out the things that might attract people to me. My mom always said I have a nice smile I just don't use it enough. I'm going to also work on my sense of humor and try not to take everything so damn seriously. In short. I'm going to change!
 
Ayla

Ayla

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lucidity said:
Mine is to stop smoking, which I know is very cliché.
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- who cares if its cliché, that's fabulous! good luck to you.

hmmmm, goal...show up at my SA therapy group in January. Its a start, anyways.
 
lucidity

lucidity

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:D Thanks Ayla. The way I see it, smoking is gonna harm me more than the SA will.

You are so lucky you got into SA group therapy. I would do anything to be in your place. Where I am at, there are a lot of people waiting in line to join these kind of groups. So don't miss it.

BTW , I love your name :wink:
 
shy_miss_fly

shy_miss_fly

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My New years resolution is too start seeing a therapist and get control over this SA. I know seeing therapist dosent sound like such a big thing, but too me it is. I hate talking about my feelings, acually I hate just plain talking. lol
 
Aerandir

Aerandir

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Yeah..
- 1 Get help... (doctor, medicine, therapy, etc)
- 2 Get a girlfriend
- 3 Put my school works back on rails
- 4 To have a real social life
- 5 To have fun
- 6 To stop bothering with everything
- 7 ... let's dream...
 
shyandnumb

shyandnumb

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1.) TALK MORE! :p
2.)Not do too many things at last minute, especially schoolwork :oops:
3.)get out of college with my sanity intact 8O
4.)to get help for my problems, instead of handling it all myself :?

Well, thats basically what wish I could actually accomplish for the new year.
 
kattness

kattness

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ummm

1 - try to bring out my personality more
2 - lose some weight
3 - try to get a girlfriend
4 - try to get friends that i can trust
5 - play the guitar 50 times better than i can now

jesus if only......... :(
 
redlady

redlady

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Masterpiece2 said:
shyandnumb said:
3.)get out of college with my sanity intact 8O
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lol, that's a though one, i wish i would have made that wish before getting out of it 8O.
hmm, some resolutions...
1. get a job
2. get money
3. maintain the job
4. spend money (ah, it's been so long)
5. get out of this city at the end of another lost highway
6. get control over heart beat
7. drop the job
8. hitchhike my way if necessary 8O, (rite)
9. build a chopter
10. go to a forest
well, any of those would serve right.
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May they all come true - especially number 9
 
sugaryberries

sugaryberries

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1. get a 4.0 taking 16 hours
2. get a part-time job
3. join some clubs
4. go to at least 1 social function
5. attempt to talk more
6. win the lottery
 
Remus

Remus

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I wanna start smoking, drinking, taking illicit substances and cheat on any GFs I might have :lol:
 
renegade

renegade

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Remus said:
I wanna start smoking, drinking, taking illicit substances and cheat on any GFs I might have :lol:
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lol :lol:

I'm allready smoking, I've drinked thousands of bottles of beer, I'm allready on illicit substances cause my parents think xanax is a drug and now i'm a drug addict 2 them :roll: and I'm heavily cheating on my imaginary GFs :mrgreen:
 
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