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I am so afraid I'll never find a girlfriend who loves me for me being me. I have social phobia and plus i am transgender. (Female to Male) I am different and I wish I was a normal born male. I am afraid I will never find love. Love is so beautiful and i hope i won't end up alone.


Do I look male enough ? Hope I pass as a guy.

I feel so sad,, i want to find love but i guess it's impossible because im DIFFERENT with this stuff
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Hello Yoshua,

Yes, you look like a male, the facial hair is pretty convincing.
I would have never guessed you were a female before.
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You've got good genetics when it comes to looks, you were a good looking girl and now you're a good looking guy. Your features allow you to ascribe to either gender convincingly.
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Do you have any FTM trans dude friends? I ask because I have a couple, much closer to your age than mine, and maybe it would help to be in touch with someone who has shared your experience. One of them is pretty shy, and has been on hormones for about a year, and just married his girlfriend. So it's definitely something you can achieve.
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I think people should be free to be who they truly are inside so good luck with this transition.To be honest as you know it's hard finding acceptance but it is possible if you look in the right places.I know there are bars,etc that are gay and transgender friendly in some big cities.Depending were you live that may be an option.

Online dating is an option since there are transgender dating sites but a lot of research is needed to find a good legit one.

I wonder if it's harder or easier going from male to female than the other way in terms of acceptance,dating etc.I personally find women and transgender women attractive.Dating either would be okay with me
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wow i thought you were male until i read more. If you keep trying you will eventually find someone. Dating requires manyattempts.
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You immediately reminded me of "Falkor", probably mainly due to being Dutch, but it could also be because Falkor is also transgender & in transition.
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Learn to meditate. It's a life changer for our social lives. You become able to relax anywhere, and accept yourself. You can take classes online (hackself,org) or in person (tm). Best of luck, and be consistent. I do it for 10 mins a day, and it works wonders.
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I've always had the understanding that saying stuff like, "You really pass as, X or O" is really disrespectful, but sense you asked. Yes, you do look like a male, I saw the picture first and yes, I did think you were a born male.

Don't think it's always a bad thing so not be in a relationship. I felt so left out during school. No friends, much less any boy that would be interested in me. I didn't get a boyfriend until I was 19 years old. The relationship was horrible, and sometimes I wish I never had any relationships. On the good side (Only had 2 and both were bad) I got a lot of red flags to look out for, etc.

You will find someone. This is coming from a female (I feel like there's mostly males in this site) you are hella cute.

Excuse my west coast slang *cringe*
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