FriendlyShadow
Well-known member
People make me wonder sometimes. They make me feel guilty because I have a quite aspect of me I cannot and probably will not be able to get rid of. People think they're is something wrong with my quiet aura and they somehow can't accept it. Question: Why? No, I want an answer why some of you people will not accept everyone's different aspects of their personalities. Not once have I ever insulted people to ask why they are quiet and make them feel bad and try to say you should have friends and should do what the majority group of people are doing. The people who tell me this have not had gone through a more upsetting and unsettling life than i have ever gone through. Sorry, I brought this topic up like multiple times already, but I can't take it. My mom thinks there's something wrong with me because I'm quiet and don't have friends. However, I don't have a sense of feeling whether I want to be friends with people or not. I'm not even sure what I want, but she thinks she knows. My whole family told me they had their moments when they were young, but you know that was only a short period of time before they had friends to talk to while I'm still stuck in my own era. Some things I've noticed that made me question why they had friends: They talk about them behind their back, calling their friends boyfriends girlfriends ugly or talking about their apperances, ect. How is it possible to have friends if you didn't like them to begin with. No, why is it possible for the mean bunch of people to have friends while the others sadly have none. I'm sorry but I really don't want to hear that nonsense because they don't speak up enough or they are "losers" because they don't have friends. I'm sick of it it's beginning to be repetitive. Some people might actually like staying quiet or they just have hidden reasons why they can't talk to people like me for instance. And because of the rejection and pain I went through my life( I got stabbed in the palm with a pencil when I was young at school) And people now suddenly get this idea that after all you have suffered through the years with everyone torturing you and degrading you because you don't "fit in"(whatever that means anymore) now they want you to change one harmless aspect that isn't even important at all for people to worry. There are bigger issues and disasters that are happening in this cruel planet than someone just having a trait that isn't even as close as to what's going on in the outside world. There are murders, criminals, drug dealers, ect. But no, that's just too easy for them to change because they get away with that stuff. People who have quiet personalities are frowned upon for no reason and I think instead of society trying to let the extroverts have their fun and let them get away with telling people how they are, society should make it fair that quiet people should act how they want to act to without being judged. The quiet people wouldn't feel any pressure or guilt that they have to suddenly change just to become one of the group. I also want to say something about people telling others to build confidence. But how? How do you build confidence. I know I can't do it, and people make it easier by just saying it. That's not helping at all.