Perfectly acceptable behaviour

To say your quite arnt you why don't you speak much? why are you so quiet?

I wonder what the reaction would be to your loud arnt you do you ever stop talking why don't you shut up.

Same thing but one is perfectly acceptable the other is not 😎

I've thought about saying that everytime people say i'm quiet. I've thought about saying 'is that a personal criticism?' I wonder what they will reply to that.

Kobayashi Maru is what comes to mind.. If you are deemed too quiet or too loud you cannot win.. It's a no win scenario which we either ignore or find a way to tell them of.. With emphasis on the ignore part..