Soulspectre
Active member
I think one of the main problems we all have with social anxiety, and maybe the cause of it all (not sure) is that we see the world through others eyes. When have you actually stopped for a second and made your own decision instead of thinking what another person might think of you for making it. I think that most of us are all looking at ourselves through someone else's perspective. I can't remember the last time I was able to just do things because I wanted to do them. There is another post similar to this on this site, and the guy had a really good point about it. The way to go about things is to kill that 3rd person perspective. Only then can you find who you really are and live maybe a worry free life. It may not be the answer to all of our problems but I think it's definitely a step in the right direction.