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    So hard to stay positive when you're put down in social situations

    Whether I'm really put down or if im just overly sensitive, its so hard to stay positive when all I want to do is beat the shit out of these people / say shit to them because of the intense frustration of being looked down on and not fitting in. I know I need to suck it up and stay positive...
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    Ok so I "snapped" at a co-worker and I cant stop worrying about it

    My coworker asked me to staple a big pile of papers today and i was like "Noooooooooo"....I was just being sarcastic, im a overly nice shy person and I do most things for most people just to get acceptance. I was gonna smile and do it. Then I looked over and saw that she had her own stapler so...
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    **I have OCD induced SA and would apperciate some advice**

    I have OCD where I need to rethink thoughts to solve problems and / or get them "perfect". Sometimes people would talk to me to be nice like "hey man you want some snacks", or "hey i put your food in the microwave for you". I would respond with a quick "thanks" in an attempt to get rid of...
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    Coworkers are trying to set me up on Blind date...but....

    Age 23 never dated or done jack with women not good in social situations in general, especially w/women. what should I do / say? So far i've given mixed answers with a tone that I really dont want to be bothered with this.
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    Do you guys get SOOO angry with yourself when you waste time

    I have PURE OCD and alot of times, thoughts get into my head during a workout (my ocd cure). Sometimes It gets so intense that I have to stop what im doing, go home, and automatically feel better becuase the stress of pushing the ritualizatons aside and enjoying the workout isnt there anymore...
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    Holy Crap. Had to discuss sexual problems with women

    Long story short, When i was a kid, I had these really painful ejcaculations. When I took Paxil for OCD, they went away. I kept pushing the problem aside until I realized that it is something that needs to be checked out. I call and just kept saying i had a men's healht problem and they...
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    Obsessively rethinking details of conversations

    Well yesterday I was having a really had day and i carried a tense/depressed look on my face. I got even more tense / frustrated when I couldnt find my car. As I was walking in the garage, I see someone I've had class with several times but never really talked. We had the awkward "should we say...
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